How to Get Out of a Discipline at 40

i've seen lots of people in my clinical practice who didn't grow up when they should have, and who are 30 or which isn't too bad. But forty, you know, they're still drifting. They still haven't catalized in identity of any sort. And that gets, that starts to get ugly around 30. People generally go for those who are about 25 % more attractive than they are. So the sacrifice is that you end up with something rather than nothing at all.