Is There a Special Qualification for Falling in Love?

There are what he once called the three hearts, r the three phases of love. The christians discerned it as using hellenic or greek terms,. A aros love is anything that fulfils you. And then there's the middle heart, where you don't love in order to be loved. Is there any qualification for falling in love? Yes, we have to be humboldt. We have to bring a discrimination between the kinds of loves. As adida says, i am no other who exists is me. But when you've learnt, when you've grown up enough, then you love what would they call true love. I think ramana amana maharshi