You Shouldn't Be More Like Your Brother

"My role was always the big sister helper uh when my brother got into trouble because our parents lived overseas so I was in that role yeah," she said. "It was very humiliating for my brother and it was unpleasant for me but it was just sort of seemed like the way it had to be at least a lot of time" She says Coben's Zen teacher told her why can't you be more like your brother oh my gosh.