How to find and define your design style

Have you ever walked into someone’s home and instantly felt something—warmth, calm, personality, creativity—and wondered why your own space doesn’t give you that same amazing feeling? In this episode, I sit down with the world’s top interior designer Nate Berkus to unpack the psychology behind creating your dream home—a place you're so proud of you never want to leave. 

Nate breaks down practical tips to find your style, avoid trends, and insert more of you into your home, sharing that the real key to great design isn’t money or square footage—it’s your personal history. He also encourages you to shop local, lean into sustainability with vintage or thrifted finds, and enjoy the creative process of finding “that special piece you’ll have forever”.

Whether you're living in a bland rental or renovating a house, this episode gives you practical steps and advice you can use today to have a landing place that makes you feel incredible. 

🎧 What you’ll learn:

• Why “eclectic style” is often code for “I don’t know what I like”
• How to figure out who you are at home—and why that’s the start of great design
• The real reason your rental feels flat (and how to fix it with cheap vintage finds)
• Why trends exist (hint: they’re not for your benefit)
• The four principles Nate uses to create personal, elevated, collected spaces
• How to build confidence in your own taste—even if design intimidates you
• Why vintage pieces instantly add soul and character (and what should never be vintage)
• How to combine contrasting styles without creating chaos
• A simple assignment to instantly sharpen your design direction

✨ Homework: Find a photo of a room you genuinely love. Identify three things you love about the room and three things you don’t. Use the details you love as search terms to start uncovering your design language.

For more from Nate Berkus:

•  His Book, Foundations: Timeless Design That Feels Personal
•  His Website
•  His Instagram, @nateberkus 

Visit www.liveauctioneers.com to find a live auction for special vintage finds near you as suggested by Nate.

Check out the previous episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast discussed today: Style And Success Secrets With Fashion Icon Rachel Zoe.

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