Expect and Accept a Lack of Closure

There is a section of your book entirely about identity. And you write, quote, when I go into a hard conversation about identity, I have to be prepared to feel more unsettled than I was before. You know, there's this wonderful line that I learned from a woman named Karina Montag who is a she runs anti-racism workshops and restorative workshops here in the East Bay where I live. She told me that when she gathers groups together, she starts with this principle, expect and accept a lack of closure.