What if People Don't Like It?

We're taught that if we get a negative emotion or reaction from somebody, we need to just do anything to make it ok. Part of the process of speaking up for yourself is standing in that even though people don't like it. We are going to feel saddened. So when i'm telling you we need to start speaking up,we need to start advocating for ourselves. I'm not ing that just for the sake of being uncomfortable, or just for the purposes of learning how to be in touch with our emotions. Every single time you put somebody else's wants and needs above yourself, you are sending a subconscious message,. Then what does that do? Then we choose partners who aren't able