How Do You Heal Your Shame?

I like my organic way of being as much more submissive. I mean, there was a time when it was important for me to feel dominant in bedand and now that is so strange to me. And this is the case often for women who have been sexuallyhe have to be in charge. So you know, as a man, you may be passing through something, and if you can inquire about it, be with it accepted, you may find thin a year or two down the road that fantasy doesn't turn you on at all. It's not like that's your blue print forever, that we get to continually be in discovery of. How about now? And how about now?