How to Get at Her Telling You Why?

There are different ways to get at her telling you why. You can just be asking a questionright? Why do people do this? This is one answer, but there's probably a lot of different answers. There's something too, about no kit's birthday party, a birthday clown, a pinada. They're all such fun childhood things, but it all feels so nefarious and spooky and evil when you put all these things together. And i do trust the metaphor that you're your, your dream self that's creating this. We'll start throwing metaphors. Even if you're just being silly, like the clown showing up, you know, super fun. Then you just ask,