The relationship you have with your parent is going to directly impact how you're going to attach yourselves. As a child, I would get ignored for like hours to days on end and that got me into the conditioning that if somebody is ignoring me, it's because I'm a bad person or doing a bad thing. So growing up into an adult now people will go quiet when they are dating either because they're probably busy or don't have anything to say. Other times I might approach them in a more offensive manner because I feel quite insecure about them. It takes so many times to leave an abusive situation. They hijack our brains. And something that isn't often acknowledged is how much that