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The Love Book by Iris Murdock
Aristotle would say that love is action oriented, but also about attention. A really important part and dimension of love is just how we see other people in our mind's eye. And this is an ancient idea, so that the ancient greek and roman philosophers talk about our friends as our second selves. We feel as though their lives are joined with our own, even if we can't make decisions and direct their lives.