How Losing Our Temperament Leads to Losing Yourself

i want to shed some light on why our need to be perceived as good and even yond, reproach creates problems for some of the people around us. i also wanted to validate the complex feelings this situation creates for those of us who are or have been on the receiving end of it. And if you've found yourself not being liked by some one, or even being called out, you've likely felt incredibly uncomfortable, confused, hurt and possibly very angry about it. And i hear you, and i see you too.