The Importance of Separating the Grave

Jabr married a woman significantly older than him who was widowed. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam says, well why didn't you marry someone that's younger? He said he needed help in the household and I wanted to marry a woman that would be almost like another mom to my sisters. Now is there anything wrong in Islam with that? Absolutely not but some people use the hadith without the context.