You need to be with a person in both good and bad times, he says. That's when you start to make decisions about whether you want to spend the rest of your lives together. He thinks there are ways to test relationships like we can test our desires. "i don't think it's appropriate to lie, but i think you can speak a hard truth," he says.

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