Is Your Relationship a Dizzywood?

I believe that the traditional, I call it Dizzywood, like Disney and Hollywood, view of love and romance is to lock us in a place in a confined space. The model sadly, you know, maybe started by Catholicism and then becoming the norm of what is expected in a relationship are all of me all the time exclusively forever. And I think that's actually really, really stressful... You need to have separate parts of your life,. Maybe a hobby, maybe something that is not shared with your partner because otherwise it just becomes too suffocating.