Gande: I don't think that the medical profession and health care systems in general deal with death very well. During my sister's last few weeks, it felt like every question we asked and every concern we had was cind of all the response we got. We are not really trained in how to lose some one,. We're trained so well in how to in how to keep them with us. And i'm sure for people who choose to go into the other branch of medicine where they have to cut and manage it by day, i'm sure it's hard.