How to Deal With Fear and Pain

People are conditioned to move away from pain and towards pleasure, right? And pleas lies in the known. So when we experience something 30, forty, 50 years ago that brought us pain to day, we will still be afraid to revisit it even though 95 % of the context has changed. That's how powerful pain is. The thing with pain is that its scar tissue, right? It's hard to argue with proof. But again, we can contextralize it. Pain is the voice that says, oh, i tried that once. Did not go well. I am never doing that again.