Dismissing a Child

People who are secure have drama, is just they're able to regulate it and are flexible. A person who is dismissing is shifting attention in the story, themes and through defences, away from attachment to stress. The unresolved individual can look like any of those people ie just described. But when attachment drama enters just one story, unbelievable, just one story,. they are not able to regulate. There is no agencynd nobody comes along. Not even a stranger comes along and helps them. Ine childishest overwhelmed, and the parent just leaves the room.