
Ep. 173 - Reframing Rejection & Finding Self-Worth - The Process with Shani
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
I Love Saying No to Anything That Is Settled
"I love nothing more than a shiny carrot. Give me a shiny carrot and let me say no to it," she said. "The first time you say no to something that is settling, whatever settling means to you, the first time you do that...you expand yourself."
Where are you settling for the bare minimum? If you’re manifesting a home or publishing a book, struggling with being single/dating, working on healing childhood trauma, or simply just beginning this process, this episode will be so expansive for you.
Pathway member Shani Silver covers all of this and more with Jessica. They also talk about her entire manifestation process, how she personalized the work, learned that rejection is protection, and how this process ultimately led to her self-published book & dream home in New Orleans. Shani shares tons of tips for anyone new to the work too.
Happy Manifesting!
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In This Episode We Talk About:
- Pathway member Shani’s remarkable manifestations, including her dream house in New Orleans, publishing her own book and reframing singlehood!
- Shani’s unique upbringing and overcoming childhood trauma
- Creating new neural pathways in the brain through DI’s
- Shani’s initial manifestation list and how it has evolved
- How increased self-worth leads to tangible manifestations
- Her unique method of soothing her Inner Child and Shadow
- The TBM workshops and DI’s that Shani uses daily
- Trusting your intuition, saying ‘no’, never settling!
- Translating jealousy into expansion
- Banishing negative narratives around dating and partnership
- Tips for those just beginning their TBM process!
Resources:
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In The Episode:
- Expanded: The Process Episodes
- Unblocked Inner child
- Unblocked Shadow
- Subconscious Reintegration DI
- Trigger DI
- Prosperity DI
- Uplevel - Next Level
- Book Self-Publishing Company - Scribe Media
- Shani Linktree
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips
(with exercises by Jessica Gill)
Coming October 21st!
The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.
Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.
Past guests include leading voices like Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.
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