The more we really know about what we're missing out on, often the harder it is to come to terms with it. I think one of the things that plays a central role in our sense of missing out and our relationship to alternative possibilities is how much we know about them. It was always true when I was 15 that I was going to pick some kind of life path and it would exclude lots of other things. But at that point, I wasn't really tortured by it. This connects to something else that I think is related to our experience of regret.

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