
Episode 72: Mona Fishbane
The AAMFT Podcast
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The Couple Dance, Let's a Criticise Defend, and What's Going on Hind the Scenes?
In two thousand four, the same year that i stumbled on narrow science, michel shenkman and i wrote an article in family process called vulnerability cycle. We looked at the couple dance, let's say, criticise defend, and we looked at what's going on hind the scenes. They are both enacting in the marriage their exact survival strategies from their family of origin. So this vulnerability cycle allows us to excess the dance, what's behind the dance for each person. It also accesses the family of origin, the background of each person's vulnerabilities and survival strategies, and then we help. You know, you frame the dance now as a circular process, not a linear
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