What Shapes Who You Are?

If you were born male or female, that is the place where it could seem to be, ok e, this is my identity. But can you really say that they are you? You know, when you look deep into yourself, does it really matter if your or female? Does that shape? I mean, it may shape a your mood, it may Shape your thoughts. It may shape what you want to go after in life. Ultimately everything. Those things? Yes, they shape your experience. And if you certain races in whatever nation have certain sub cultures, and sure that shapes your experience and how you're perceived in the world. But ultimately, it's not you.