What Is Most Important for Men?

i'd like men to reimagine, am what they can bring in the way of gifts. We know that we haven't covered for men are around re imagining their sexuality and seeing the potential to be in sexual relationships without as much shame. Aa, i think if men were to focus even just solely on how their attention and on what they do sexually can open a woman into a greater experience of herself and her heart and her love,  they would have such a deeper experience of themselves as lovers,. rather than the idea of just giving her orgasms.