The Emotional Style of Deprivation

The emotional style of deprivation is that no matter how much love or ention you get, it's never enough. This problem often arises from a childhood where one or both parents were so self absorbed in work and misery they did not focus on their child's emotional needs. Do you often find yourself in a caretaker with others? Are you drawn to relationships with people who are ungiving, cold or self absorbed? If this sounds like you, you need to stop expecting others to be mind readers without letting your needs be known. Listen to sarah's story about her feelings of unlovability which have driven her to perfectionism. She says she changes herself for whoever she's around because she