Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

Raymond: I was so caught in that, and still find myself sometimes of like, cause it's very alluring. And i think that actually causes a lot of pain in a way. We are for better or worse, sort of like trapped in the biological skins that we have. So why not try to learn how to work with that, instead of escape it or work against it? Ray, rayive been thinking about that. Bcause there's this in the 12 steps, there's the fourth step, right? That's like, remove your character defects. You just have to like surrender and like ask them to be removed.