Do You Have Any Dubious Advice About Death?

Our first question at theday comes from abbie, who writes, dear john and hank, i am the only child of a single parent who is dead. Many people are confused by my rare situation and ask me how it happened. And answering is very awkward. Do you have any dubious advice for me? My good it's good to answer questions that are, you know, universal. Everyone deals with these issues of of just of having this particular situation as very unusual. But i think, in a lot of ways, one that that actually isn't that unusual.