Queer Relationships Are Not Exempt From Patriarchal Standards

The only thing that makes it like countercultural is because it exists in the first place, she says. "Even pretending you're not catering to a male fantasy is a male fantasy" The same power dynamics play out in queer relationships even if there is no man present or there is no woman present,. Those things are so pervasive and especially what Katherine McKinnon would say is that it's all in pornography ... It's rotted everyone's brain."