Is There a Forgiveness Strategy?

I did an eighta month attachment strategy course with george hoss, who used to be at that place against the stream at which i think closed this place in l a. So there's a couple attachment strategies, fearful, avoidant, preoccupied, like love, eddiction, yes, o. But everyone's secure attachment is one, s rihtly, you're withholding or you're no. I've never thought about forever, until i want to get out. People's words mean literally nothing to me. And then the love language mine is just actions and acts of service, which is very few. It would be such a bigger failure if it's wrong.