Using, I Not You Statements as Much as Possible

People don't generally want unsolicited advice. Try to truly get someone talking and understanding what they believe through kind of and in questions that really try to seek out what's going on in their heads. And then the idea of collaborative problem solving, which is different in younger kids. In younger kids, you know, they have a planning disorder if they obey dh d. But as they but certainly with teens, the goal is they try to do it in a more collaborative way.