How to Open Yourself Up to the Holy Spirit

Rather than grieving the spirit, Paul says there is a right kind of grieving that comes at looking at your sin. And God help me to become more dependent and more in control through the work of the Spirit than on alcohol or any other substances. You with me? Okay. So now let's go to the happy stuff. How do we open ourselves up to the Holy Spirit? We'll just flip these around, honestly.