How to Create a Coherent Narrative

The way they measure attachment is language. And it's not what you say, but how you say it. So if I'm able to tell you the story of my history, but stay connected to you and not get lost in the story, or if I just say, it was fine. My parents were great. What else do you want to know? Right? Like that kind of stiff narrative is not a coherent narrative. It's either disorganized or dismissive. Or dismissive. You're getting it. I'm on that girl.