Love Is a Full Time Job, Says Fram

Love is an active striving for the growth and happiness of the loved person, rooted in one's capacity to love. But modern society tells us to actively strive for success, prestige, money and power - all of which run contrary to this whole love process. If you're ever going to love in a truly artistic fashion, you are necessarily going to have to be counter culture as well. Frand thinks the process of improving at loving is very similar to the process of improved it other forms of art. He talks about four main things you can focus on, umility, courage, faith and discipline.