How to Find Mentors and Friends Who Are Non Monogamous

If you're interested in non monogamy and polyamory you have to seek out models they're not just presented to you the way that monogamy is. The fortunate thing is as people are becoming more comfortable being out about this with their inner circle or on social media or whatever it is chances are increasing that you at least know someone who knows someone who is non monogamous. You can look into meetup groups if you're in an area that has meetup groups and you can attend in-person events ideally right at the gate without the intention of like trying to find someone to date. And I sometimes also encourage folks while they're doing this is to keep track of how you respond to