How to Set a Boundary

"When i teach about boundaries that always comes up is don't expect someone to be like oh my gosh that's such a self-honoring choice," she says. "What comes after makes people go back to the tribe that's half fueling them and not fueling them at all right or draining the life out of them so if we don't know the step two and the step three and the step four  and we don't have a tribe that keeps reminding usoh oh honey step two is coming but here's how it's going to feel and here's what you can do, just remember that it's goingto be hard."