Self-Esteem Culture, Therapy Culture, and the Case for Wholeness in Christ
The Best of You
Intro
Alison introduces Sharon Hodde Miller, the episode topic, and key themes about self-esteem culture and gazing at God.
When insecurity takes over, most of us double down on self-improvement. But what if freedom doesn’t come from focusing more on yourself - but less?
In this powerful conversation, Dr. Alison and author of Free of Me and Gazing at God, Sharon Hodde Miller, discuss the promises and pitfalls of self-esteem culture - and why a bigger story of belovedness, stewardship, and connection sets us free. We talk about how self-preoccupation doesn’t improve self-esteem, why “just love yourself more” can reinforce the problem, and how beholding God (not abandoning yourself) recenters your life with humility and purpose.
In this episode, we cover:
- Why self-focus can erode your confidence and joy
- The difference between self-esteem and self-preoccupation
- What it means to de-center yourself without losing your worth
- How wounds can masquerade as pride or insecurity
- The freedom that comes from remembering: you are not the hero of the story
Get your hands on a copy of Sharon's books! You can find them here:
📚Free of Me: Why Life Is Better When It's Not about You
📚Gazing at God: A 40-Day Journey to Greater Freedom from Self
Here are some other episodes you might like :
Episode 99: I Shouldn’t Feel Like My Spirit is Broken
Episode 67: The Inextricable Link Between Faith & Emotional Healing with Cindy Gao
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