Are You in Love With Your Girlfriend?

When somebody has an avoidant personality or a non confrontational personality and doesn't want to make waves, that they probably withhold resentment and swallow anger. So she may be at that point. It's never too late to improve yourself. But right now, the person you are is the person she's known for a long time. Like you said, you've improved so much that door may have been closed a long time ago. Some people end it way sooner than we're ready. And this is what it sounds like might be happening.