This chapter explores the concept of control in psychology, discussing its role in family violence and its potential as a positive force for maintaining order. It also examines the link between the need for control, lack of empathy, and psychopathic and narcissistic behaviors.
We all have a natural need for a sense of control in our lives – but the over-controlling kind can get out of hand. People with a psychopathic personality disorder are highly skilled in manipulative techniques – which can wreak havoc if you’re on the receiving end. But every-day controlling behaviour may be getting an unfair bad rap – and may be essential for our wellbeing.