The Reverse of the Traditional Process

A lot of these people found each other on the internet and or on travel to the other lands. They met these people, spent a couple days with them, came home and now we meet them when they are about to return to the land. And most of them have a wedding date, which is a few days after they land, including some who have never actually met each other in person. So what is your take? Some of them are irreconcilably bat shit crazy. Some of them I am genuinely worried and scared for. This is why I can't watch reality TV because I cannot separate myself.