i think the other thing to just remember, or maybe i can ask you, is, what kind of emotions should you expect your partner to feel over the course of your relationship? What do you mean by that? Oh, all kinds of emotionsli. So, like, in a weird way, i know it's kind of weird, but like, he's going to get angry, and that's ok. Cause you're not the perfect partner and he isn't the perfect partner. But angry with her, true, for but it sounds like she's, she doesn't see it coming, like, there us conot nowhere.