Do I Trust Him?

If you find out the one you're committed to is known to have the character of one who's manipulated and used people for their own gratification, then there's no way to know if you're not simply one of those people being discarded as well. And i'm just a pawn or a tool to accomplish something better for her? How can i know that? So when you take away the trustworthiness of me and my wife, you undermine those other two points, which are valuable and needed. Though you may really believe yourself to be a elect child of god, there'sno way for you to have assurance under the calvinistic world view,. You cannot rely upon the trustworthy of god