The Importance of Morality in Post Aborted Women

If a woman is we would consider her deluded or off the reservation or hey there's nothing to get worked up over here it was just an ovum. You're operating with a really mistaken sense of the world. It seems like under your view we should have that same mentality towards post aborted women prior to 20 weeks but I think my view better aligns with most people's intuitions that the death of a human embryo or fetus is far far different morally than the death of an Ovum. But they're not valuing that fetus they're valuing what it would become. So you're saying when somebody grieves over a miscarriage at let's say you know 12 weeks that's