Why I Don't Engage in Sexual Relationships

Sex is not particularly special to me in and of itself. I don't have a lot of my own self-worth tied up in doing it or having access to it. What I get out of relationships instead is so much more than sex. And all this is to say it just doesn't make me feel insecure to think about my partners having sex with other people, even them having more fun doing it with someone else than with me. If I had a partner for whom that really floated their boat and that wasn't something I was into I'd be so so happy for them to find it with another person.