The Near Death Experience - Is the Subject Really Speaking?

In land of dreams, somehow we have access to messages that are beyond just our subjective complexes. Theure hypnogogi and ipnopopit dreams one you're half awake, half asleep, you're going to sleep; hen when you're waking up, half awake and half asleep. Why is it the case that thats if we just take that as an example, that that is her husband as an internal figure, an inner figure of hers, not communicating, but interacting with her?