Is There a Meta Rule That Guides All Other Rules?

In western culture, the idea there is that do unto others as you would have them do unto you. And so it's thi consistent pattern of abstraction of ethical guide lines. We act a certain way and we have certain kinds of expectations. Out of that a pattern, a pattern way of being emerges. Then we map the patterned way of being. There's ten of them, or however many you want to extract,. I mean, it's a moving target in some sense. You don't know exactly what an acceptable solution would be like. It's really ridiculously hard work....