Dating Aps - It's Not a Relationship

The chemical that gets released in your brain when you'r swiping leftor swiping right on dating aps is the same chemical that getting released when you're pulling the lever of a slop machine in las vegas. Because that's what dating is. You can't tender your wayinto a long term relationship. When i met my wife, i kind of had got to the point where it dawned on me, marrying someone, ifiif it's the right person, isn't surrendering something. It's actually a chance to build something. And i cannot conceive of having that notion when i was 25. I'm really glad i didn't try it before i was ready