Why do we get stuck in analysis paralysis, looking for solutions? Why is it that there are solutions out there and they don't seem to work? Right? If i could just do them because it's the right answer. So let's try to understand what your strategy is and why it doesn't work. I think sometimes a cognitive strategy can masquerade as an emotional one. And so now what i need is a different kind of strategy, a meta strategy, a creative strategy and out of the box strategy.