Do You Have a Name for Your Uncles?

No one gets mad but I have had like I've had uncles that have been like huge fans that I would be like okay like I'm gonna give my uncle Thomas shout. so do you have like a system it also he also asked do you have friends family who specifically requests to be named or asked not to be named do you honor these requests any funny stories of folks who got really mad at being named in an act over the years are worth sharing? "I gotta think they're not thrilled with being a child molester or like or racist"  Catherine would be would be fine with being named we still get in touch on her birthdays and uh and say hello."