Can We Just Be Who We Want to Be Period Right?

"Can we just be who we want to be period right?" "I think that your role you're playing so well judgment I mean the thing is is it there's so much judgment absolutely and so many assumptions limitation on humans because of that judgment everyone needs to fit within that mold," she says. 'My mold would be a very small very like tiny package mold but it's a my mold it's made for me' "[The] queer community started the conversation because they were so oppressed for so many years but can we just be  who we are inside without all of the judgment? Can someone just say hey I am this and that at the same time seems paradoxical but I am