How to Be Autotelic in Relationships

The magnetic mental state is where we see everything flowing naturally and your authentic behavior. You get better at it with practice determining what the small steps are in the interactions, so you can step into them accordingly. By simply being aware of this in your interactions, you further affirm it to be how you are. This is practical self-acceptance. Then as you do, all of this becomes a natural way of being and you'll find that in conversations, you're not trying to argue or convince. It seems to happen automatically.