"I was blown away. I wasn't particularly attracted to her, but i was just stunned by like how human she was," he says of his wife. "i don't think it doesn't matter to me whether she laughs at my jokes or not... If some of them laugh, cool. If they don't laughing, no big deal." After a series of terrible experiences with women in college, the author decided to become a monk and abandon dating for sex. He has since found love again - this time as a married father-of-one.