How to Be a Man

The key characteristic here is going to be discipline. This ability to curtail instincts and impulses in favor of a vision for the greater good. And so if the foundation is humility, the second layer up is discipline, self restraint. So anytime we're thinking, Oh, I just, I had to do it. I must do this. Analysts were being more like an animal than like a human being... "You actually are under requirement morally to let it, let it out"